Sunday, May 31, 2009

LIFE is Good

At the talent show, Jeff joined a few of our friends and played bass. Here is Gloria.



Oh, we are home...and getting back into life here...so hang in there! I'll be posting more soon.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Mr. Lovejoy and our fabulous visit

Ben arrived on Sunday - much to our delight! We were able to gather a few friends, by his request, and had a bit of a pool party. James Colburn and Jayne (Robyn was ill, sorry to say), Flo, Marc, Camille and Juliet were here, as were we five and Hannah. We had a great time talking and visiting and swimming and talking some more. We threw together some pizzas and headed down for some food and water sports. All in all, a great time. Ben had some checking in to do down in San Diego, but Jeff went down with him, so we knew we would see him that night as well. The kids love him. Kade still talks about the visit often.

Ben was actually here on business, so we missed him for a few days. We made up for the time, though, as we got to share some of the kid's favorite places with him on Thursday and Friday. Thursday we took him out to eat. It was, actually, part of the deal Kade made with him in order for him to have his shoe back the Sunday before (Kade was holding it hostage so Ben couldn't leave). Kade was promised a dinner at Hot Dog on a Stick. So, this is how we spent our evening! Kai, of course, loves Panda Express, so that's what he had. We were able to spend some quality time together as a group and it felt as if Ben was just part of our family. We feel so fortunate!

Here is proof he was here and that we wore him out completely!





These are from Friday night. We were able to have him over then, too. Heehee! It worked out perfectly. Jeff and Ben were to be at the airport early in the morning, so we were able to drive them down to catch their planes. Ben was on his way home. Jeff on his way to Scotland.

Thanks, Kelly and kids, for letting us steal your Ben. He certainly brightened our lives. We will ever be grateful for the Steven Lynch introduction. Thanks, Duncan, for the cool Naruto headbands. The boys were very happy you thought of them. They love 'em.

Monday, May 18, 2009

It's

park day! We are just about ready. Need to eat a touch then we can go see some friends. Hopefully there will be some who will share this time...they may be on the road, though...

I have so much more to post about. I am feeling more like getting it down here...so will eventually.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Rainsticks and the car accident

After we got home from our road trip, we slept! By Thursday we were ready for some friends and fun. So we headed out to Gardenia's to take a class. Gardenia is great at finding cool things to do...and to help her she has her brother, Luis. Luis is offering many classes on native american art forms. This particular Thursday we made rainsticks. The boys want the end product, but really aren't crafty if there are friends they can play with. I look at this as a great way for me to provide them with cool crafty things I truly enjoy making - and they truly enjoy playing with! Kai stayed and listened to Luis talk about the rainsticks and how they were used in different native groups, as did Kade. Kade started his then flew off to play. They turned out great, though. We made them out of cardboard tubes with pipe cleaners inside to break up the fall of some beads. Simple, easy and fun. We ended up decorating the outside with wooden beads and feathers. Too cool. Loads of friends and fun - a perfect mixture!

The next day, though, is what started my own personal spiral. Thursday night Hannah, Annie's friend and fellow cosmetologist, came to stay for an extended weekend. Having Hannah is great...and her birthday was this particular Friday, so we were in planning mode. The girls have class on Friday, so they headed out in Hannah's car. Annie loves to drive, so she was behind the wheel. Well, I got a call at 9:30 or so. It was Annie. The front left tire of the car had blown while they were in the fast lane. She was able to keep control of the car, signal and start to go to the left off the road to slow down and stop. While doing so, they were rammed by someone going about 85-90 mph. Not good. They had the police and a witness to the accident there. Reports were filed and the tow truck picked up the other car. Hannah's car seemed to be ok, so they let them drive it. In hind sight, I don't know if this was the best idea, but at least it turned out ok. Annie was calling from Starbucks because her phone had died and she didn't have enough charge to call without it being plugged in - and they needed a bit more time before getting back on the road to get home. Thankfully we were able to get them in to see the Dr. that same day. However, in between that 9:00 hit time and the 4:00 appointment time both girls were in some serious pain and were definitely stiff. Hannah seems to have been injured worse than Annie was, or at least Annie's body handled it better than Hannah's did. By Sunday, Hannah was in really, really bad shape. She had been to the emergency room already once (and went again before she was able to get home). The meds she was given didn't go well with the meds she is already on, so she ended up sick to her stomach and spitting up blood. Not something any of us were comfortable with...and her folks are in Stockton. Once she got home on Wednesday, her personal Dr. was able to do a lot more for her. Come to find out her jaw was dislocated and so her pain went down tremendously once it was put back into place. She also got the right meds and seems to be back up and running.

Annie is doing fine now. She's back to wearing her back braise (something she's been working on getting off of for a long time), but the healing is happening. But the drama/trauma was entirely real for all of us.

Thankfully, it seems we are all doing better now!

Saturday, May 16, 2009

LIFE is Good...

Friday, May 15, 2009

Road trip

Well, WAY back in April, we took a road trip. The plan was to leave here and stop in Phoenix to stay with our friends Shan and family for a few days. Then we would go on the road again to Albuquerque. We would stay with Beth and her fabulous family while there. All this was timed perfectly for when Baba and Grandpa Jon were touring New Mexico. While visiting Beth, we would get to spend a few hours with Baba and Jon. Then have a day with friends and head back to AZ for an overnight and then back home we would go.

However, plans changed. First, though, check out the pictures the boys took while we were on the road. They are awesome. It's a bit over 6 minutes, but worth it. The music helps (so remember to turn off the music on the side bar) speed things along. It's fun to see what they found worth taking a picture of.

Trip to Albuquerque to meet up with Baba from Beachbum on Vimeo.



While on the road, we saw the sign for the Gen. Patton Museum. In unison, the boys read the sign and both immediately said they wanted to go see it. So we stopped. It turned out to be full of information I was unfamiliar with. I knew Patton trained troops. What I didn't know is that he found and built this facility to train troops for battle in Africa. There was nothing there. He had to bring water in and set the whole thing up. This museum is where it used to be. They have a small building now set up with memorabilia and Kai sat through the entire 30 minute video presentation. Kade and I kept browsing through the exhibits and spent some time looking through the gift shop while Kai was watching. Afterwards we walked through the outside part of the museum and took a few pictures. Since most of the structures were tents (if I remember correctly) the only permanent structure was the chapel...which had no roof or walls. Now you can dedicate a bench or a brick, if you so desire. Anyway, it was worth the history lesson and was a welcomed break in our drive.

When we hit the road again, I called our Buckley friends only to hear they had been hit by a fever and were pretty sick. We weren't looking forward to starting our trip by getting whatever nasty thing they had to get over, so decided to stay on the road past Phoenix and finally landed in Flagstaff. Jeff was able to find a great hotel, Little America, and we loved our stay there. It is a great, family/kid friendly hotel with rooms that have plenty of space. It was just the perfect spot to rest. Pandi took time to explore with me as we went to get extra water for the night. The next morning found us ready to head out again. So, we jumped into the car and headed for Albuquerque. Being a day early meant we would be able to join the unschooling tribe there for a park day. We arrived late, but most everyone was there. It was wonderful seeing the boys seamlessly fit in and start playing as if they had known these kids forever. We all felt welcome and enjoyed ourselves much. We spent the next few days with the wonderful Fuller gang. It was so incredible for Kevin to squeak as much time with us as he did - it was wonderful. Beth and I have no trouble passing the time and often were looking at each other and asking where it had gone! Emma and Kade were great friends. Kai went along and played much as well as played on his DS. We enjoyed many a song on Rock Band. It was truly magical. The intensity of the boys can be much, so I'm thrilled everyone seamed to handle it well. How cool is it that this unschooling tribe is so active?! We were able to meet the crew at the zoo for some fun on the structures and around the polar bear exhibit. Kade and I took a gander at the seals, too, and they were cool. The next night we hung out at the pool for an hour with the kids. In there somewhere we were able to visit with Beth's mom, Nina, and made food I saw on the TV (a great bread salad and a needed to be altered, maybe cause I tried to make it by memory, stuffed mushroom appetizer).

(Proof we saw Baba and Jon!) We obviously brought the camera. Of course, in classic fashion we didn't take a single picture of all the fun times we had. We did get a few from Sylvia which I hope to scan and get up here at some point.



The next afternoon we got to spend a few hours with Baba and Jon - and ate at this really great restaurant, the Range, and enjoyed our time with the Grandfolks. We headed back to Beth's (or Emma's if you are asking Kade) and crashed...to get enough energy to head out back to the park. I was able to talk a bit more with some folk and the boys played. Saturday we headed back out of town toward Phoenix and Shan's house.

Of course, the travel was a bit fun. When we left for Phoenix there was a storm warning. I-40 was clear and dry all the way (except for a spitting of rain once). We were coming down past Flagstaff and it started to snow. We ended up going about 10 mph on the freeway. I found a great spot right behind a semi (so we could follow in his path) and ended up passing 6 accidents of other motorists who were traveling way too fast and spun out of control. We were also able to watch the snowplows work on the opposite side of the freeway...and saw the two working on our side exit off the freeway to head back northbound. Once we crossed over the pass, there was no threat of snow. I-10 was a breeze. We were glad to have made it to Shan's with so little trouble...but with nerves a bit frazzled.

By then the kids were all well. We had a wonderful time there, too. Shan and kids had dyed some eggs (using silk) and they turned out beautifully. We hid them in the park the night before Easter so when the kids were up and ready they could go on a hunt. All the kids awoke to baskets, too, which was a treat. Shan's folks had us over with the rest of the family for Easter morning food and egg hunt. By then Kade was truly tired and had some trouble with all the changes and had some expectations we weren't aware of...but we *still* had fun. Back to the house for an evening in the park and baseball in the grass. Out to diner at the golf course restaurant surrounded by beauty. We got to walk around a bit and see the pond and fish. Kade wanted to crash a reunion picture...but we managed to avoid the main shot...and made it back to the table in time to eat a delicious meal. After the dinner, Dave made a fire in the pit and we sat around and had s'mores and chatted a bit. A lovely time with great people.

We are thankful for our great friends. Kai was in hog heaven to be with older kids that enjoyed his interests. Kade was happy to be doing things with people every moment of the day. I was thrilled to see and talk with people I don't get near enough time with. It definitely filled us up with happiness.

That Monday we headed back for home. It was great to be able to see a happy face first thing! Annie had to have her car worked on, so we picked her up from the auto shop. Her bright face was a great gift. We made it home with just enough time to unload the car and unpack before I jumped back in to go get Jeff from work. I don't often have the chance to pick him up alone...so that was a gift, too!

What a trip. We saw things we had never seen. We got to further know people whom we enjoy. We had a ton of fun.

More later...as it's getting a bit late here...

Thursday, May 7, 2009

I remember

the very first time we did this. My brother sang, I think Beth did, too. Definitely McKee. What a great time and wonderful music we made a long time ago.